Next May, I will withdraw from Yale College for three semesters
to serve on a proselytizing mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-Day Saints. Although there are many misconceptions about
Mormonism, most people have heard that Mormon youth serve missions in
which each is called to a specific area of the world to share the
doctrines of Mormonism. Mormon men generally leave for their missions
at the age of 19 and serve for a period of two years; women leave at
age 21 and serve for 18 months.
I know withdrawing for three semesters and going on a mission
is an extreme and unusual action for a female junior at Yale.
Clearly, my decision suggests that I am committed to my religion.
Being a Mormon, though, is a lifestyle. It is difficult to be a
"Sunday Mormon," attending church on the Sabbath and then abandoning
the religion's teachings for the rest of the week.
Each day, I concentrate on internalizing the moral and
spiritual codes I am taught both by my teachers and by the
scriptures. I obey the Word of Wisdom, a revelation given by God to
the Prophet Joseph Smith in 1833, which advises every member of the
Church to avoid tobacco, alcohol, coffee and tea, and in general to
maintain a healthy body. I obey the Law of Chastity which prohibits
premarital sex. I try to surround myself with moral and inspriring
people and to maintain a positive, Christian attitude.
Is it difficult to be a Mormon student on the Yale campus?
Certainly there are people on this campus who neither adhere to the
principles of the Word of Wisdom nor follow the Law of Chastity, but
does that mean it is impossible for me to be a devoted member of my
church? I answer with a resounding "No." In my two and a half years
at Yale, my devotion to my religion and my ability to follow its
precepts have only increased. The Mormon community at Yale is small
(there is a congregation of about 120 undergraduate and graduate
students), but our members and our leaders are committed and
supportive. We are close friends brought together by the Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. The unpaid lay clergy is composed
of professors and students who are familiar with the lifestyle at
Yale and the challenges of being religious on a university campus.
It has not only been roommates, friends, advisors, and professors
who have enabled me to be an active Mormon while at Yale. The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has its own meetinghouse on the
Yale campus, the Wilford Woodruff Center on Trumbull Street. In
addition to Sunday meetings, I attend a scripture study class Monday
and Wednesday mornings at the Center during which a Mormon Divinity
School student leads about 25 Mormon students through the Book of
Mormon and the Bible, joint scriptures of Mormonism.
There is no doubt that my decision to come to Yale was in part
influenced by whether or not I would be able to practice my religion
effectively while at college. I chose Yale because I felt that it is
a place that welcomes and accomodates religious diversity. I felt,
after researching the social and academic climate at Yale, that as a
Mormon I would be respected and my habits would be unhindered. I
proved to be correct. My first year roommates were not only
respectful; they were fascinated. Today, those same roommates brag to
others about being "Mormon Experts" because of all they have learned
about my beliefs. My daily prayers and scripture study never seem to
bother anyone, and often others ask to be included in these
practices.
In accordance with Mormon tradition, I fast the first Sunday of
every month as an expression of devotion to God. When I choose to do
so, others may notice me skipping a few meals, but no one ever drags
me to the dining hall or scorns my decision not to eat for religious
reasons as pointless or unhealthy. My lifestyle, no matter how
unusual, has only been a source of inspiring conversation. No
limitations have been placed on either my desire or my ability to
practice the religion that brings me so much joy.
As a Mormon at Yale, I have been both challenged and enhanced. My
integrity has been put to the test, as has my conviction of what I
believe and my discipline to act upon those beliefs. On the whole,
however, my experience here as a religious student has been positive.
I am more deeply involved in my church than when I came to Yale and I
am grateful for the opportunities for religious growth that Yale
provides. I am also grateful that Yale has accommodated my need to
withdraw for my mission. I will miss Yale when I am away, but it is
partly my confirming experiences here that have given me the desire
to go.
Neylan McBaine, JE'99, is a member of the Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
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