Making Sex Safer
Dental Dam
What is a dental dam?
A dental dam is a sheet of latex which acts as a barrier between the vagina or anus and the mouth. Dental dams get their name because they are used during dental surgery such as root canals. Due to the possible infectious secretions from both the vagina and anus, the dental dam is becoming a more popular safer sex tool. With the introduction of different colors, shapes and sizes, manufacturers are adding some exciting changes to what once was sterile translucent-white latex.
How effective are dental dams?
Dental dams are an effective means of preventing infection from vaginal or anal secretions. To ensure the effectiveness of the barrier, check the dental dam for holes or breakage by holding it up to light or testing to see if water is able to pass through it. Be sure to rinse the dental dam before use as you or your partner may be allergic to the talc used for packaging. Do not use with oil-based lubricants, as they can break down the latex and cause leaks. Finally, only one side of the dam should come in contact with the genitals, and the dam should be used only once.
How do you use dental dams?
Dental dams are not the most difficult piece of protection to use. Some people prefer that the person performing oral sex should hold the dam so that the receiver can just sit back and relax. Others think that the receiver should hold the dam so the other partner has his/her hands free for other stimulation. Think creatively if this is something you use often. Cut out the crotch from panties or briefs to hold the dam in place or use a garter belt so all hands can be free. As an alternative, some dental dams are now made with an adhesive strip which will hold the dam in place. Remember to use some water based lubricant on the vagina or anus beforehand to increase the amount of stimulation received.
Practical concerns
- People often approach dental dams with the fear that the normally intense stimulation by the tongue will be lessened by the sheet of latex. The feeling of a dental dam is different than the feeling of a tongue but it does not necessarily make it a bad thing.
- Use plenty of water based lubricant and one partner can play with the latex in his/her mouth to provide their partner with a new type of stimulation.
- Use plenty of water based lubricant and one partner can play with the latex in his/her mouth to provide their partner with a new type of stimulation.
