Making Sex Safer

12 Things to Ask Yourself Before Having Sex

Can I have sex without feeling guilt or regrets?
Do I want to have sex for selfish reasons?
Have I discussed birth control with my partner?
Do I have all the knowledge I need to prevent an unwanted pregnancy and the spread of STDs?
How do my religious beliefs affect my decision?
Have I thought of all the possible consequences?
Am I willing to accept any of the consequences?
How will having sex affect our relationship?
Am I afraid I’ll lose my partner if I refuse to have sex?
Do I want to have sex because of pressure from friends?
Have I honestly considered my values?
Are there other ways we can build a loving relationship?