- PETER COXON
- 4/30/2005
- On Friday I'd taken the train from
Bruton to Dorchester West and walked to Patrick Tolfree's house for a
bowl of soup before driving out to Jim's funeral service at Stinsford.
St Michael's Church is where TH was baptised and where he regularly
attended services from his early youth. The rector in Hardy's time -
the Revd. Arthur Shirley - was an Eton/Christ Church man holding to
what Hardy once described as the old "high and dry way". Lots of poems
and stories recall this time ("Afternoon Service", "The Oxen" etc).
- How different the full church looked on Friday to the doleful affair
in January 1928 when Hardy's funeral service took its course. And how
differrent the the participants! Now the vicar is a woman, Revd. Janet
Smith, and doing an excellent job in the parish. She conducted the
service with quiet dignity. Jim's widow, Helen Gibson, in light-coloured
skirt and top, sitting with her family sitting, including her sister
who had flown 'home' from South Africa, lots of grand-children running
around, Jim's 3 children, now grown and none a spitten image of their
father - until the son spoke. Jim then came alive with that voice,
every 'r' a 'w'.
- Mourners
local and from further afield (including a scholar from Yale, a Swiss
friend from Geneva, and a representative of Macmillan's) filled the
tiny church. The organist, Barry Ferguson, manipulated the small organ
brilliantly - he is a fine musician and played some of his own music,
as he has in TH conferences of the past. Hardy loved the Elijah story
(I Kings) and throughout his life noted down (at least 5 times)
whenever he heard it read in church. It was that 'still small voice'
that did it for the great man and was taken up in the last verse of
the opening hymn - 'O still small voice of calm!'
- Claire,
Tony & Tessa spoke as a trio - standing together with linked arms, and
contributing their offerings in no particular order. They stood under
the chancel arch close to Jim's coffin which bore a lovely wreath of
white roses strewn with with blue irises. They spoke of their father
with great love and affection, naturally and with no mawkishness, of
his immense energy and enthusiasm, of hours spent in the study, of his
tireless interest in what they did, the goals which he encouraged them
to reach, the long walks he dragged them on (wife + 4 children),
drives in the summer hols to France and Italy, never passing a book
shop without a quick nip in, arriving at a dreadful camp-site in Italy
after a long tiring drive and straightway turning around - 'I know a
bwilliant place near Venice', of the 50 books he wrote ('Hardy has
looked after me vewy well'), of reading Hardy poetry at midnight on
the pebbles at Weymouth, of his wicked sense of humour, busy social
life, love of conversation, stories from the past, family picnics and
parties, in the early seventies inveterate brewer of beer, in the late
seventies enthusiasm for home made cider, the immense tragedy of the
death by suicide of one of his sons - and his love of Hardy and
attempts to bring the man and his poetry to the public. "WE
LOVE HIM AND WE WILL MISS HIM".
- Tessa Taylor, a
family friend of many years, read beautifully a fine prayer composed
by an American scholar, David Jones (he has preached the opening
sermon at the start of a number of Hardy conferences) -
self-confessedly 'Jim's greatest admirer'. He described Jim's courage
in war and danger, courage in illness and courage in personal tragedy.
That he had recognised that despite life's suffering 'love lures life
on'. Jim was extraordinarily generous to those who sought to know more
about Thomas Hardy. The TH Journal, the TH Soc. grew under his
leadership and 'we bless his life loyalties' - 'We cherish the works
he has given us' - 'We take courage from his life to renew our life'.
- The Oxen'
was read with quiet dignity by Sue Theobald whose own hus-band had died
suddenly a few years ago shortly before he was to take up the reins of
Chairman of the TH Society, thus following in Jim's footsteps. And no
greater hymn than 'The Old Hundredth' - one of Hardy's favourites -
brought the service to an end just before a lovely prayer by the
vicar.
- On to Max
Gate and the faces of many mutual friends and some new ones as we
talked of Jim, each with their own special recollections, enjoyed
refreshments, including a glass of good red wine, the sort that often
trembled in Jim's hand as he told another tale. -- Peter.
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- WILLIAM W. MORGAN
- 5/01/2005
- Jim was an immensely learned man, a
fierce advocate for Hardy's greatness ("second only to Shakespeare,"
as he said many a time), and a superbly generous friend.
I met him (as I met so many others--Ian Gregor,
Michael Irwin, Desmond Hawkins, etc.) in the summer of 1978 when I
made my first trip to the DCM to work my way through the Hardy letters
there and attended my first Hardy Summer School (as they were called
back then). He and I had corresponded about some textual matters in
Hardy's poems, and I was anxious to meet him. At the time Jim lived
in Canterbury, so I drove over from Dorchester one Friday afternoon,
expecting to meet with him and his family for dinner, have a bit of
conversation, and stay over in a hotel. He met me out-
- side his house, fed me dinner, took
me off to his study where he gave me Hardy Ale to drink and kept me up
until about 2:30 talking about Hardy. I stayed over, and the next day
he took me on a marvelous tour of Canterbury--the cathedral, St
Agatha's Church, the Conrad Memorial, etc. As we were standing
outside his house before my departure, he was till imparting gener
- ous "tips": "Did you know that the
paper on which Hardy's holographs of his poems are written has a dated
watermark?" Well, of course I didn't; I suspect he was the only
person on earth who did know that in 1978. It was typical of him to
give away that kind of information--the kind a more career-oriented
academic would guard jealously.
It became my custom to see Jim in Canterbury and
later Jim and Helen in Cerne Abbas every time I was in England. And
when I started bringing groups of stu-
- dents over to study Hardy on
location, Jim became a regular visitor to those classes, always coming
in for an afternoon to deliver a stunning exposition of Hardy's formal
complexity and a rousing endorsement of Hardy's unrivalled wisdom.
Those presentations and the evenings with him among his books are some
of my favorite memories of him. Incidentally, I don't think anyone
has mentioned how much he knew about Hardy's books as books: he
was a superb bookman and Hardy collector, knowing the points of this
or that edition of Tess or Moments of Vision right down
to the footnotes in Purdy. His Hardy collection was one of the best
in the world when he sold most of it a few years back. (And of course
he couldn't resist a bargain, so he started over; the last time I was
with him and Helen in Cerne in 2004, he was showing me some new
acquisit-ions to the Gibson Collection, v. II.) Jim
could be strikingly stubborn and irascible, but one never had the
feeling that his stiffness was unloving: I have left his house after
hours of agreeing on little and disagreeing on much, but still with a
keen sense of having been in the presence of a good friend and a
loving and loveable man.
- I'm a
secular person, but I know a blessing when I see one: Jim Gibson was a
blessing. We are all diminished by his passing. -- Bill
Morgan
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